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This page is dedicated to Robert D. Flaherty  "FLASH". He was born on May 23, 1970, and he died at 39 on August 17, 2009. He was a friend to many, and will be missed by many.

"Bobby is gone from our lives but will never be forgotten. He will be in our hearts forever." 

To become a part of Bobby's tribute, please choose from the options below to make a donation to the Robert D. Flaherty Memorial Fund. Your donations are greatly appreciated. And, feel free to add to the website any photos and memories you may have of Bobby for his family and friends to keep his memory alive.

Make check payable and mail to:

The Robert D. Flaherty Memorial Fund c/o Joanne Flaherty 109 Deming Way Ext. Wilmington, MA 01887

or

Copy and Paste the PayPal address listed below to make an online donation to the Robert D. Flaherty Memorial Fund

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If you would like to donate items to the Fundraiser from your company, business, or even personally, please call Chris Ringos at 781-710-5903.

AN INVITATION TO BOBBY'S TRIBUTE:

Robert D. Flaherty Memorial Fundraiser at The Pub (Ball Sq. Somerville) August 21, 2009 Doors/Appetizers at 7pm DJ Entertainment Raffles at 930pm: $25 Donation for First Prize (Luxury Box Boston Red Sox Tickets for 2) 50/50 Raffle, and Raffles for Gift Certificates and Gift Baskets.

SERVICE INFORMATION:

Services will be held at Doherty Funeral Home-Somerville, MA

Find the link below to Doherty Funeral Home and Directions http://www.dohertyfuneralservice.com/directions.htm

The wake at Doherty will be on Sunday, August 23, 2009 from 3-8pm. The funeral at Doherty (No Mass) will be on Monday, August 24, 2009 at 11:00am.

A gathering following Funeral will be held in Billerica at the home of MaryEllen Harris (Cousin). Directions will be available at Doherty on Monday morning.

*Please check this website for updates as more information will follow.

On behalf of Bobby, his family and close friends, we would like to thank you all for your continued support during this very, difficult time. It is obvious from all taking part in this tribute, that there are just no words to describe how very sorry we all are and how we will miss our Bobby. He will continue to watch over us all!

As well, we are planning this fundraiser tonight for all who loved Bobby to support him and his family. We are looking forward to seeing all who can make this special event. Thank you!

August 17, 2023
August 17, 2023
August 17, 2023. So many years have passed and we still think of you always, at our home and pool, vacations - especially Ft Myers Beach where we visited with you and of course Cape Cod at Nana & Grampa Jim’s home. Ft Myers Beach which was totally destroyed by a hurricane September 23, 2022.Our most precious memories of you and our family live on forever.
Love You Always, Sue-Sue
August 17, 2018
August 17, 2018
9 years and it still hurts more than ever! You are so solely missed by so many! Your memory will forever live on! I know you and Bernie are up there surrounded by beautiful woman saying "Now this is heaven!"
May 23, 2017
May 23, 2017
Happy Birthday Bobby!!!! Can you believe we are 47 years old lol. Still remember all those days of us hanging out up at The High Tower...Rest easy my friend till we meet again God Bless!!!
May 23, 2017
May 23, 2017
Happy 47th Birthday! Still can't beleive your gone and it doesn't get easier as time passes. I think of you often and miss u all the time! Rest in peace! Forever in my heart!
August 17, 2016
August 17, 2016
2016 Seven years of missing you and it still hurts to know you are not here on earth with all of us. Love and miss you forever, rest in total peace with all the family with you
May 23, 2015
May 23, 2015
Happy Birthday Bobby!!!! Wish we could head up to the High Tower and play Wiffle Ball like we use to do all summer long when we were kids...You are missed my friend!!!! Rest in Peace...Your buddy for life Harry
May 23, 2015
May 23, 2015
Happy Birthday Bobby!  You are missed !
May 23, 2015
May 23, 2015
Happy Birthday Bobby ,
I miss you every day !
Love Karen and family
Xo
May 23, 2015
May 23, 2015
Happy Birthday my love, my Godson. Stopped by your place on Ft Myers Beach this month. I felt you there by the ocean waves. Love you now and forever. Enjoy eternal peace with Nana,Grampa Jim, Bob(your Dad), Jimmy, Michael and Aunt Beth
August 17, 2014
August 17, 2014
Bobby, I think of you today as I do everyday!
I'm so glad I have all of our memories to remember
And be able to laugh at we were silly!
I miss you Flash!
Love
K
May 24, 2014
May 24, 2014
Happy Birthday Bobby! Wish you were still here to make me laugh!! Love and miss you!
May 23, 2014
May 23, 2014
Still can't believe you're gone Flash......Wish I had back one more day to hang out and chat at the beach! We had some good laughs that summer of 2009! Miss u buddy xoxoxo
August 21, 2013
August 21, 2013
Hi Bobby, you have been on my mind so much lately! Probably because I have been at Jill's and I feel like u are there with us almost like I can hear you saying "suck it up buttercup!" Wish u were there in some sense I think u are!!!
August 21, 2013
August 21, 2013
Hi Joanne and Michelle,
I can't believe it has been 4 years. I think about Bobby a lot because of my three sons, Joey, Michael and Bobby. I remember when they all hung out together when you lived on Heath Street.  He was the same age as my Bobby, he was just too young to leave. I hope this finds you and Michelle doing okay. Thinking and praying for you.
August 20, 2013
August 20, 2013
Hey Bobby, miss you and think about you all the time, I tell my girls our funny stories, hummmm not all as they are in high school now, once they graduate I'll make them laugh,if there anything like me they would repeat and do them so can't tell them now!!!
Miss you buddy
K
August 17, 2013
August 17, 2013
Hello Joanne and Mootsie,

It's a tough day but in spite of it all, God is always with us. Yes? Yup!!
Love you & God Bless Always!!!!!!!!! Kristina  xoxox
August 17, 2013
August 17, 2013
There is not a day that goes by that I don't think of you! So many good memories!!!! U will forever be in my heart!!!!
May 29, 2013
May 29, 2013
Bobby, I think of you EVERY day. Stopped by your place at Ft Myers last week and remembered how you barbecued for us. My heart will always ache for loosing you. I also love to think of all your 39 yrs of laughter, love and hugs. Enjoy the crowd up there as we will someday with all of you.
May 26, 2013
May 26, 2013
Happy Belated Birthday! Love and miss u everyday! Still hard to believe I'm never going to see your handsome face again!!!
May 24, 2013
May 24, 2013
I was just at your grave yesterday. I miss you good friend. You are in my families conversations weekly. Everytime I look at the cottage I think of you..love you Ringo
May 24, 2013
May 24, 2013
HEY FLASH, ALWAYS THINKING OF YOU. SAY HI TO DOUGIE
May 23, 2013
May 23, 2013
Happy Birthday Bobby, I think of you often, miss you my friend <3
May 23, 2013
May 23, 2013
Happy Birthday Bobby!!! I think about you all the time,and still laugh at all the fun we had!! Please look over Eric and tell him we miss him so much!! I'm sure you both are hanging together!!
Xoxox
Karen
May 23, 2013
May 23, 2013
Dear Joanne and Michelle

If you are reading this; thinking of you today and praying for a peace in your hearts that surpasses all understanding. Love never fails. And the greatest of these is....... 

God Bless
May 23, 2013
May 23, 2013
Joanne,
We worked together at Sunrise ever so briefly. You made an enourmous impact in my life. I often think of "life beyond the clothesline" such a devastating circumstance should NEVER happen, and least of all to those who we love. I hope this day finds you wiith peace. God Bless you
May 23, 2013
May 23, 2013
Happy Birthday Bobby!! Love you & miss you so much.. I wish you could've met my daughter Olivia, I was about 6 months pregnant with her when you passed away.. I'm sure you must have known I was lol.. I know you would've loved Olivia & she would've definitely loved you too Bobby! Rest in peace & please continue to watch over Michelle, your mom & all of your family..♥ xoxo
August 17, 2012
August 17, 2012
Bobby, not a day goes by that I don't think of you, and all the mischief we caused!! Love and miss you buddy!
Karen
August 17, 2012
August 17, 2012
I bring your name up at least 2 to 3 times a week. I miss you
August 17, 2012
August 17, 2012
doesnt feel like you've been gone 3 years already. I think of you often and Jess talks about uncle Flash once and awhile. She's growing up Bobby, make sure you watch over her for me. I know you are entertaining everyone up there, save me a seat but not too soon.
Love you my friend
August 17, 2012
August 17, 2012
There is not a day that goes by that I don't miss and think about u! I still can't believe that you are gone! I love you always and forever!!!
May 23, 2012
May 23, 2012
Dear Joanne and Michelle,

Thinking of you today. Miss you!!!! Call when you can. 
You know why time seems so strange to us? I think cuz we weren't designed for time. We were designed for eternity!!! PTL : )
May 23, 2012
May 23, 2012
Happy Birthday Bobby...Miss ya Buddy...Say hi to my mother and see you when I get there....

Harry
May 28, 2011
May 28, 2011
Joann and Michelle although our paths seperated our feelings remained the same I held you all close in my heart for always and love as we know never dies so remeber I will always love you and keep you in my prayers. Love Nancy Wanders
July 18, 2010
July 18, 2010
Almost a year later, and our hearts still ache. We miss you every day cousin. It's not the same without you in our lives. Life goes on, but memories last forever.
February 27, 2010
February 27, 2010
Bobby there is not a day that goes by that I don't think of you! You will forever be to me my one and only true love.
September 8, 2009
September 8, 2009
MY PRAYERS ARE WITH FLAHERTY FAMILY. RIP BOBBY WE WILL MISS YOU TRACY MCKENZIE AND THERESA MCKENZIE
September 1, 2009
September 1, 2009
My thoughts and prayers are with Flash's entire family! Gone but NEVER forgotten. RIP Flash...
August 27, 2009
August 27, 2009
Class of 88
Sorry to hear such sad news...I too remember his bright smile...my prayers go out to all his friends and family...he will be forever missed.
August 27, 2009
August 27, 2009
Class of 88'

Thinking of Bobby's family and friends. Sorry to hear such sad news. It's just not fair.
Rest peacefully Bobby.
August 27, 2009
August 27, 2009
Joanne and family,
I am so very, very sorry for your loss. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
George Koslosky
August 24, 2009
August 24, 2009
Joanne & Michelle,

All my love, sympathy and condolences are ever present with you. You are in thoughts and prayers and I hold Bobby in the Light.
August 24, 2009
August 24, 2009
Bobby always had a smile to share...what a gift to all who knew him:-)

May family & friends find comfort in the memories. God bless you.
August 24, 2009
August 24, 2009
My thoughts and prayers are with Bobby's family.
August 24, 2009
August 24, 2009
Joanne,
There are no words to speak to your loss of your beloved son. Know that I am thinking and praying for you and your family to find peace. Cathi
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August 17, 2023
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August 17, 2023. So many years have passed and we still think of you always, at our home and pool, vacations - especially Ft Myers Beach where we visited with you and of course Cape Cod at Nana & Grampa Jim’s home. Ft Myers Beach which was totally destroyed by a hurricane September 23, 2022.Our most precious memories of you and our family live on forever.
Love You Always, Sue-Sue
August 17, 2018
August 17, 2018
9 years and it still hurts more than ever! You are so solely missed by so many! Your memory will forever live on! I know you and Bernie are up there surrounded by beautiful woman saying "Now this is heaven!"
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Skiing for the first time

August 17, 2011

omg Tommy do you remember this, so we all decided to go skiing, god we were probably 19-20 years old I cant remember. Karen, Amy, Me, Bobby, Tommy, Theresa forgive me if I leave anyone out. So Bobby and I had never got on ski's, he and I get to the top of this mountain, look at each other and say okay we can do this....little by little he and I made our way down the mountain so we thought, we didn't get that far. This little 5ish year old decides he is going to show us up and spray us with snow....lol needless to say it was so funny, we decided to take off our ski's walk down the mountain and call it a day...good times. miss you Bobby

August 21, 2010

one year later and there is no comfort my heart is broken and always will be.  michelle and I miss you so much . your phone calls"  just checking in JJ. you would say i  always worried about you ! you just never had time to slow down ,like a shooting star in the sky we all held on soo  t ightly to you we all wanted so much and you tried so hard to please always  i love you Bobby  such a hole without you we all felt it  at jennifers baby christening   As your Uncle Rick said  " He was certainly loved by all of us . I am so proud of all your friends you meant so much to them They are all grieving for you missing you............. Love MOM

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August 26, 2009

"Everytime you smile at someone, it is an action of love, a gift to that person, a beautiful thing." - MOTHER TERESA.  Bob certainly knew that the shortest distance between two people is a smile. You are forever in our thoughts and prayers.  Love, Pat and Bill McDade

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